Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Take An Educated Guess


So…it’s been awhile…a long while…months and months. Working in the land of auto claims has been wild – a whole new world of offices, deadlines, angry policy holders, and an unending workload. People, if you get into a car accident, be nice to your adjuster—they’re people too! It really has been pretty amazing to observe (in a customer service occupation) what people will not say to you face to face, and what they have no problem saying to you over the phone. I understand why cyber-bullying has become such an epidemic—there are (seemingly) so little consequences to what you say when the person is not directly in front of you.  With all the stress and frustration that comes with being a claims adjuster, I will miss the people I work with. I feel like we have been in the trenches together (yes, I am comparing claims adjusting to a war…yes, it is an accurate comparison), and there is a sweet bond formed between those heading into “battle” together. In a few short days I will be leaving the insurance world behind, and I really do feel like I have learned a ton about myself, about negotiation, and about confidently approaching confrontation.

Now, you might be thinking to yourself, “Self, Jess is leaving the insurance world? Does that mean another new job?” Why yes, yes it does mean a new job folks…3 jobs in 10 months—could I get some more transition please? I have not had enough transitions since moving across the country in July. This move, however, is going to be a sweet one. An opportunity has come my way to begin working on my Masters of Counseling full time while working for Covenant Seminary. Yep, it’s pretty much a dream come true. Ever since my time with Young Life ended this past summer, I have been able to evaluate the things that I really loved about my work. While there is a long, long list of things I love about Young Life, I have found that the one-on-one time walking through broken and messy situations with high school folks is the part I missed the most…the part I always longed to be more equipped for. So, here I am—going back to school and working at the Seminary. Peter is really excited about this opportunity for me for many reasons…most of all because he can get 15 minutes more sleep in the morning while I drive us to school.


In other news…I’m in a band. Yep, a real performing at venues, recording albums, selling merch band…its sooooo fun.  Charlie, our band leader, composer, piano man, and lead vocalist roped me in after church one Sunday in early January (along with the two other gals affectionately known as “The Honeys”).  We have been rehearsing for months and have had two successful performances so far. We are slotted to play in the River Front Times 2013 music Showcase on June 1st in Downtown St. Louis.  Should you come if you are in STL? Yes…should you vote for us no matter what city you live in? Absolutely!


You can find the band, The Educated Guess, in the “Chamber Pop” section. That is probably a pretty accurate description of our sound (imagine Billy Joel and the Supremes with a big band – loud and vintage). Being a part of this group has been a pretty surreal adventure. When I was getting ready for our first “gig”, I had to keep reminding myself that this is real…I really am about to sing in a band at a real music venue. Needless to say, being a part of the Educated Guess has been one of the most fun things that have happened since moving to STL. Between the band and singing in the choir at Memorial, I feel like I have rediscovered how much I really love singing.  Peter has faithfully been to each performance, and has rallied others to come with him – he has even mentioned purchasing an “I’m with the band” shirt. I have been referring to him as my groupie—he likes to think of himself as more of an artistic consultant who likes to have a beer while listening to good music.

Peter finishes up finals next week, and our 2nd STL summer will be filled with Hebrew class, another new job, Les Mis at the Muny, 107 degree heat,  and cleaning out our guest room closest in preparation for Lindsay’s relocation to Missouri (Missour-a if you you’re nasty…Janet Jackson? Nobody?...Eh, worth a shot).

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